Poetry, Planes, and Motherhood

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Peek-a-boo!

It's been a while since I've even opened up my blog page, but lately I am feeling inspired, and this is where I love to go to spill it. I don't know if anyone even stops by anymore...

I have been so busy that writing here has not been a priority for me, but it should be. I am and have always been a writer. I need to write to get shit out of my internal champagne bottle before the cork blows.

It seems like life has been running me since I got the job here in Chicago, don't get me wrong, this IS where I want to be and truly feel that I am meant to be here. I have been trying very hard to put my family & myself first...this has me trying to be more verbal than writing or typing driven. Anyway, I felt like stopping by today, and finishing up this post I started months ago. Since it is the end of the year, I think I will catalogue the months for you to see what I have been up to, and for me to gain some perspective on what I have learned this year. Accompanied of course with pictures ;)

Here we go!

January:

I normally take a vacation in January, but elected not to in 2007 due to me misunderstanding my vacation time accrual. Not going away had a plus side for me as I ended up being available to enrich my life with a new friend. I have talked about her to many of you. January is when I went out with Effie for the first time. She took me on my first Movie Marathon we saw four movies in the theater in ONE day! It was fun, and I learned that though I usually sum people up pretty accurately within the first 30 seconds of meeting them, I am not always right...IMAGINE THAT!



February:

Since I skipped my January vacation, and got an invite to celebrate my Aunt's clean bill of health we hopped a flight. This was a very special occasion for me. My aunt had been diagnosed as third stage cancer, and with treatment now has no sign of cancer, so off to Vegas I went! I travel every year with Jules & Sherry, and it was nice to travel with Phyl & Aunt Bern. I look forward to doing it again. I have gone on several vacations the last few years with many various members of my large family, and it has become a tradition for me to get a picture taken with the whole group & hang it in my home. Here are a few more for my collection. I am sooooo happy they invited us!



Left to Right: Jen, Me, Cousin Jules, Cousin Phyllis, Cousin Sherry, Aunt Bern

Two of my cousins, Jen & I decided to drop in on a few friends in San Fran after Vegas. I was nice to really unwind, and to hear the ocean, but most of all to see the Golden Gate. My friends moved to Cali from Kentucky. I think we were their first visitors. I know that I said to Krista "You find out who you're real friends are when you move away." I have a feeling she thoroughly agreed. I know I did when I moved to Virginia...Now I am here in Chicago wondering who else is going to show me their true colors...hehehehe




Left to Right: Friend Krista, Cousin Sherry, Me, Jen, Friend Lette, Cousin Jules

March:

March winds blew in good news, this is the month I was informed that I got promoted at work. I am so happy to be privileged enough to have my dream job. Everyday that I go to work I almost have to pinch myself, and see if I am really awake. Class started in April...more on that below.

I took a few mini trips to Detroit this year, but the trip in March was very special. I attended my cousin Jerry's wedding. He is such a wonderful man, and he caught a great gal! Again surrounded by family, I felt rooted before another whirlwind swept in. I used this trip as an opportunity to get some great pics of my family, but most importantly a portrait of Jen & I.


April:

As I said earlier class started in April, but before I hit the books, a friend from work invited me to the Big Smoke Chicago. What a BLAST! For those of you who don't know, on of my favorite things to do to relax is smoke a good cigar. The Big Smoke goes several places in the U.S. and is a ticketed event. My ticket was about $200.00, my little congratulations to me gift! ;0 ) I couldn't beat it though. We had free food, free drinks (expensive ones), and I came home with 50+ cigars. OH & I got two autographs, one from a guy on the Soprano's, and another of the make of El Rico Habano Cigars. Good food, strong drinks, smooth smokes, and great company!

Class started April 23rd, that I will never forget because it's my brother's birthday. The first few weeks were kind of slow, and then from Mid-May on it kicked my ass!

May & June:

Nothing good too share here, all I did was hit the damn books, and be stressed the FUCK out!

I take that back - Jen started her job here in June, and D.J. got out of school in May so the whole family was back together living under one roof! It has been a HUGE adjustment for us to go back to not commutting. I love it though, and I wouldn't have it any other way. This has been very good for Jen & I's relationship. Pssssttt, did you know that June 18th marked Jen & I's 9 year anniversary HOLY CRAP!

I do have to say that I was again crushed in May. My 23 year old cousin was killed in an accident in Falmouth, KY. I did get to attend his funeral, but it was very sad. He went long before his time had come.

RIP Powzy

I did participate in my annual camping trip for Memorial Day weekend, that was a blast as always. It was great to see Joey & the rest of the gang and just hang out. I got soooooo drunk I couldn't even walk, I had to make myself throw up. Can you tell I was a little stressed? Who has ever seen me that drunk?

July:

This month was cruising along for me. I was nearing the end of my class room training, and then one day WHAM!!! I had a pain like I never felt before. I rolled out of class and went to the doc in the box, he sent me to the ER. Many drugs, painful tests, some shingles, and a surgery later I left minus my gallbladder...what a shitty way to leave class. I missed my last day of class and two weeks of my desk training. The upside was, it got both my Mom & Dad up here for their first visits. Dad remodeled my kitchen while he was here, what a guy! D.J. bought me the most beautiful flowers while I was in the hospital, one of the roses had two blooms in one flower, if that makes sense. The other cool thing was that my buddy Mike flew up to visit me, so meet Mike (his sister took this picture, you should check out her website:

I did do one thing before all of that other crap happened in July. I made a pitiful attempt to capture these beautiful fourth of July fireworks...

August:

Since I was in the hospital, and off work we didn't have D.J.'s birthday party until August. I also had my birthday in August. Yeah, yeah the date it's the 29th, then my oral competency check for dispatch was on the 30th, and my desk check was the 31st... Can you say CRAZY month???

September:

A little more relaxed and on a set schedule for the month I took some time to go home for a few days and do something I had never done before. I went to the Toyota WEBN fireworks. This is a huge festival & event that happens every year on Labor Day. The pictures speak for themselves, I was in awe.

October:

I didn't mention it before, but I was of course rolling to Cincinnati for every Bengal's game I could catch. What a rough year...nine players arrested, 8 & 8 the previous season, and all I could do was sit back and watch my team become one of...

November:


No Turkey day celebration for me, this junior dispatcher was working... I did however go home to celebrate with my cousin Jules, as she was soon to be hitched!


Left to Right: Sunshine, Don't know the next two girl's names...Jules, Sherry, Me, Jen, Te-Te(in the back), Charity, and another name I don't know...lol


December:

This month has been a wonderful ending to a crazy year. I have had off the majority of the month. I happened to call Phyl to see what she was up to one night before work, and she said "I'm packing for Mexico!" To which I (not so bashfully replied) Got room for one more? Off I went for 5 days in the sun! WOOHOO. My cousin Jerry, his wife Lisa, Pepe (Phyl's hubby, and Aunt Bern were going. Nobody told Aunt Bern I was coming...I found them out walking around when I arrived, I rolled up behind my Aunt wrapped my arms around her and said "Hey baby can I take you home?" She about shit herself, until she turned around...She was thrilled! I had a blast, it was beautiful and I can't wait to go back in January.

I came back from Mexico and drove to Richmond, KY where I was in Jules wedding. That's right I said IN the wedding, DRESS & ALL!!! We came back to Chicago and it commenced dumping snow, first 4 inches the 10.5 inches... I took the opportunity to snap some cute pictures of D.J.

Christmas was great! We went home for a few exhausting day it was a whirlwind trip, but still great to see our friends & family. We came home on Sunday and enjoyed Christmas Eve & Day here in our home just being lazy... It drives Jen nuts when she doesn't do something productive, but she has been very supportive in this mass chaos the last year, and I think she deserves to just be still...

One last note, I had the pleasure of taking my cousin Tasha to her first Bengals game this season, at least they won! Here are the last of the pics.

Left to Right: Lisa, Me, Aunt Bern, & Phyl

Jen, D.J. & Me (yes in a dress)


D.J.


Tash - WHODEY!!!

I hope you are caught up now, I know my fingers & wrists hurt! Take care all & keep in touch.

OH BY THE WAY...we have NOT finished the Christmas Cards yet, so PLEASE be patient, they'll get there soon...ROFL

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4 Comments:

  • At 5:09 PM, Anonymous cindropoli said…

    nothing bout the gorge in your year review... you were there... I saw ya... what's up with that?!

     
  • At 9:02 PM, Blogger KC in KY said…

    It's there...
    I did participate in my annual camping trip for Memorial Day weekend, that was a blast as always. It was great to see Joey & the rest of the gang and just hang out. I got soooooo drunk I couldn't even walk, I had to make myself throw up. Can you tell I was a little stressed? Who has ever seen me that drunk?

    just no pic, although i would have liked one of Jack blowing the bits out of that snake!

     
  • At 5:44 AM, Blogger Micky said…

    KC in KY said...
    HMMM, looks like Micky needs a hobby...

    Don't listen to that psycho babble girl. We all have our vices, the only difference between you & Micky is that you are not crazy! Oh and his vice is thinking he has interpreted the bible correctly. He obviously is speaking out of ignorance.

    Had he of done is research on the other side of the subject he'd know that the program is written to accommodate ALL RELIGIONS & their respective "Gods"...


    Are homosexual sins more sinful than heterosexual sins?

    Yes. For several reasons. First, it should be understood that the only sexual act that is moral is natural sexual relations between a man and a woman who are married to each other.

    Now, concerning heterosexual sexual sins, some are more serious than others. Natural sex before marriage is a sin against God's plan that sexual relations take place only within marriage. Adultery is a sin against both God's plan for marriage and against one's spouse and children.

    Unnatural sex within marriage is a sin against the natural order that God created in the human person, and it is a sin against procreation, and it is a sin against one's spouse.

    Unnatural sex outside of marriage is an even worse sin because it adds the sin against God's plan for marriage.

    Rape adds a sin against the body and the will of another human person, in addition to the other above-mentioned factors. The factors that make any sexual acts sinful, or more sinful, include one or more of the following (in no particular order):

    a.) sex outside of marriage - offends against God's plan for marriage and marital relations.

    b.) adultery - offends against one's own spouse and/or against the spouse of another person.

    c.) contraceptive sex - offends against God's plan for procreation.

    d.) masturbation - offends against God's plan for marriage and procreation, and against the human person

    e.) unnatural sex - offends against nature, i.e. the natural order that God created in the human person, and against procreation, and against the other person.

    f.) rape (sex without consent) - offends against the body and the will of another person and against God.

    g.) underage sex - offends against God's plan for children and adults, and against consent. Sexual relations between an adult and a teen is even more offensive than between two teens. Sexual relations between an adult and a child is all the more offensive, and increases in offensiveness as the age of the child decreases.

    h.) homosexual sex - necessarily includes the offenses of unnatural sex, non-procreative sex, sex outside of marriage, and further offends against God's will that sexual relations only occur between a man and a woman.

    i.) other sexual sins - various types of perversities offend even further against God, His plan, and His creation.


    More than one of the above-listed factors are sometimes found together in the same relationship or in the same sexual act. Each factor increases the sinfulness of the acts.

    Note that there are other sins and perversities that offend even further against God.

    Homosexual sex necessarily offends against God's plan for marriage, and for procreation, and is necessarily unnatural, and it adds the further perversity of offending against God's will that sexual relations only occur between a man and a woman.

    This further offense is against the very order that God created in the human race and in Creation. Therefore, homosexual sins are not equivalent to heterosexual sins, but are much worse.

    Some Christians think that all sex outside of marriage is equally sinful. But this is not so. Homosexual acts are a more serious offense against God because they are fundamentally and objectively a greater state of disorder and a greater state of opposition to God's plan.

    Repent,
    KC in KY! Or burn in Hell!

     
  • At 5:49 AM, Blogger Micky said…

    HOMOSEXUALITY IS A SIN

    Leviticus 18: 22 "You will not have intercourse with a man as you would with a woman. This is a hateful thing.

    29 Yes, anyone who does any of these hateful things, whatever it may be, any person doing so, will be outlawed from his people;

    20:13 "'If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.

    ROM 1:26 That is why God abandoned them to degrading passions:

    27 why their women have exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural practices; and the men, in a similar fashion, too, giving up normal relations with women, are consumed with passion for each other, men doing shameful things with men and receiving in themselves.

    32 They are well aware of God's ordinance: that those who behave like this deserve to die -- yet they not only do it, but even applaud others who do the same.

     

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